its lyn here (ruschka ) i have a spread i would like help with ifd i could its for a freind of mine on another site i am on she wants to know if she will get back with her x boyfriend so i took this spread off the site we are on and kinda interpreted it like this i have put my interp of it but will need help with it i think i would be so grsateful for your insights into this for me thankyou hun so i used my rider wite deck heres what i got ,
card1, the wheel of fourtune, how the relationship used to be-- so i gues it was very diffrent indeeed and it was fate that maybe how they met too .
These relationships are fatal, may be even karmic. They are different people and due to the physic they attract to each other, there is sort of chemistry between them
card,2, ace of pentecles, what led to end of the relationship, -- it could be her x or her?? wanted to take a new direction either through work to another area were she lived an oppertunity , or another person they could of atarted a relationship with someone else??
Money, debts. some one of them was looking for better richer partner.
card,3. page of wands, were the relationship currently stands,she maybe waiting to see if she can rekindle passion from him waiting for him to offer her a new oppertunity to develop there relationship all over again.
She needs to advice what to do the next. Yes she is waiting for offer from his side. But she does not know how to do it. She is looking for advice from destiny.
card, 4 , 5 of wands , what was the most important lesson spiritually to be learnd from the seperation, hmm i am abit confused with this one could it mean she needs to learn that things can get out of control and compition can be rife if she lets it , and she can loose things by not stsnding her ground ?? lol i dunno with that one?
All her attempts to join him are not successful now, he destroying her hopes.
card, 5, king of swords, why is she trying to get back together with him , , she wants achance to get to the bottom of the matter and obviously she is apart from him ,does she see a way through there problems now she is apart from him that otherwise she wouldent of if they were together?? also she could of had advice off an older man surrounding them both ?
He is offended.
card, 6, 8 of swords , what obsacle do you need to overcome if the realtionship is to be renued , i can only think the obstacle here is here own thinking letting her be her own worse fears, getting stuck in the thought of not being able to change her situation around her , not doing anything about it relaising its up to her if she wants the problems to change she must find the strength to at least do somthing about it not leave things as they are and hoping things wil just right themselfs being blind and ignoring the problems wont help anything if thry get back together .
This past separating is pressing them
card, 7, knight of wands, what obstacle do they need to overcome (him) to renue relationship i guess his loyalty and commitment to her not being selfish like he thinks he can come and go and please himself whenever he feels like it and using his charm on her to get what he wants, also he needs to learn the act of staying whenever an obstacle comes along.
The main problem is distance between them, he is absent in her life.
card,8, 6 of wands, what needs to be considerd before trying to make the relationship work , you need to consider that there needs to be lots of give and take on both parts here
to help make this relationship work more balance from both of you if you want this relationship to work ,
Actually they will meet together in order to agree all past misunderstandings.
card,9, the chariot, what is the true potential of this relationship in the future , i guess it will be a battle and a struggle for you to keep the direction , also a battle of wills it will be mainly one sided and feeling of trying to keep your control here to keep it balanced but you cant do this one handed you both need to go the same direction if you want it to develop into somthing better and be victorious , one of you is always going to be stirring its direction i feel while the other will be trying to pull you in another,
They will meet soon, may be he will come to her place to see her.
card 10, 5 of swords, is this relationship meant to be , i think it was always going to be inevitable that you were going to end this realtionship in a blazing row one of you feeling you have the upper hand ove rthe other i guess it was meant to be aparting of the ways while one of you feeling like the winner the other giving in but in the end no-one has won here everyone looses , a relationship thats ended in hurt and pain for eveyone .
But the end is not such successful she hopes. They will meet to separate again.
hi elenor i need help with this spread if you could please hun , any of your brillant insight would be great its took me all day to work this out and even longer to type i am so crap at typing lol thanks for this love lyn (rushka) xx